Eat Ice Cream for Supper by Kathy Manning Gronau

Author:Kathy Manning Gronau
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Morgan James Publishing
Published: 2013-10-17T16:00:00+00:00

Survival Tips

• Don’t be afraid to talk about what is happening. Pretending things haven’t changed won’t help.

• Choose a time when you are both at a good place emotionally and physically and discuss the practical aspects of what needs done. Remember, you don’t have to make an exhaustive list at the first sitting. Once the topic is not “taboo,” you will find it is easier to discuss those things as they come up.

• Be respectful of the other person. Realize if you are the caregiver that the person who is sick is likely feeling guilty about not being able to carry their share of the load. If you are frustrated say so, but don’t blame each other. Channel your energy at the problem, not each other.

• Pray. God knows what you need, so ask.

• Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If your spouse is still able, ask them to teach you. If not, find a trusted friend, neighbor, or church member to ask.

• Ask specifically for what you need. “Would you be willing to show me how to change the furnace filters?”

• Offer to return the favor. “What can I do to return the favor?” or even better, “I know you both work. I am good at mending and sewing on buttons; do you have things I can fix for you?”

• Read—Use the library or search online. You can find out how to do about anything using these two resources. When you figure out the “how,” then you can make an informed decision about whether to tackle it yourself or get help.

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